Финансовая рациональность vs традиции: о свадебных расходах городских семей среднего достатка в Казахстане

Социологические исследования. 2024. № 5. С. 128–140.

Barsukova S.

Talking about weddings in Kazakhstan can be reduced to one phrase – very beautiful, but
very expensive. A plethora of rituals accompanying the wedding, from matchmaking to post-wedding
visits, determines the scale of expenses incurred by the families of the bride and groom. Traditions
endow the bride and groom with specific expenses, which leads to the separation of their wedding
budgets and the fear of not being generous enough compared to the other side. To “decode” wedding
accounting, some wedding expenses and sources of their coverage were analyzed in detail using the
examples of several Kazakh families who had organized a wedding or were preparing for it. The article
provides an estimate of wedding expenses and systematizes the resources that allow the family to bear
this financial burden. The ways to reduce costs without reputational damage are discussed separately.
It is shown that using the relatives’ help as an alternative to bank loans is embedded in the society.
Social environment support in covering wedding expenses forms a system of mutual obligations that
firmly bind families within the framework of the gift exchange economy.

Keywords: финансовое поведение, Казахстан, Kazakhstan, financial behavior, gift exchange, ритуальная экономика, wedding expenses, свадебные традиции, wedding rituals, rituals of the life cycle, дарообмен, расходы на свадьбу