Рефлексивно-диалогичная картина любви

Мир психологии. Научно-методический журнал. 2017. № 2. С. 109–123.

Zapekina V., Starovoytenko E. B.

This article presents the results of the study, that devoted to theoretical justification and empirical application of the model of reflective$dialogical relationship I—Other. This relationship realizes in the system of dimensions «between-I-and-Other», «I-in-Other», «Other-in-I» and «I-in-Myself». An idea about the reflexivity and dialogical relationship to the Other and their unity as the conditions for the full «picture» of the relationship is developing. This «picture» is formed in the self$consciousness of the indi$ vidual. The critical possibility of a dialogical realization and a reflexive representation of the relationship to the other person is the relationship «I—loved Other». This relationship is explored by two particular models: the model of dialogical events of the relationship to the Other and the model of the reflexive «focuses» of the relationship I-loved Other. The author’s research interview «I in relationship to the loved Other» was developed that based on the «imposition» of these models. This method make possible to reveal different variants of the reflexive «picture» of love. It is embracing the dimensions of the relationship «I—Other» in different completeness. There variants of rather complete reflective dialogical «picture» of love were empirically founded, that are typical for a large part of respondents studied. Reflexive representation of the love dialogue is considered as the most important aspect of the general humanistic world outlook of the individual.

Keywords: личность, рефлексия, любовь, диалог, personality, reflection, dialogue, отношение, relationship, love